Beyond the Fork in the Road

We all want a place to be loved and cared for. You won’t make sense to everyone. You won’t be needed by everyone. You will not be understood by everyone.

If you are working to fit where you are unwanted, those are not your people. If you are begging for kindness, those are not your people. If you are made to feel sad and worse about yourself every time, those are not your people.

You will not be heard by everyone. For what you are or where you are. Don’t lose sight of the places you don’t have to battle to fit, or hurt in a mere hope of being accepted or cared for. Cherish who and what has chosen your life without a fight. An environment to learn, and grow positive energy. Don’t lose sight of all your good that laid quietly among the toxicity. It’s taken a backseat far too long.

We all want the same things…I suppose we are all just headed there on different roads of our choosing. You will only hear and be heard on your own. That’s how you know you are headed the right way.

You are more than White Noise. And everything’s going to be okay.

Sam

8 thoughts on “Beyond the Fork in the Road

  1. This is important. We spend so much time trying to fit in with or please people who were never going to accept us because they are not our people. You are right. Thanks for this good reminder.

    1. That’s an important point…that they were *never* going to be accepting. It looks different at times and has differing timelines, but those things are in place from the very beginning. It takes time to realize that something was never a reality. It is instinctual to fight for your place in life…but if someone is behind a brick wall, there is a reason and it is no one for you. We can not sacrifice ourselves to get through where we were never wanted. Sounds dreary, but is definitely all a positive to realize. Thank you so much, my friend! 🤗

  2. Amen. I am fINALLY getting this. It started with accepting me first. Funny how when I’m kinder to myself I don’t put up with as much crap from others.

    1. I think one begets the other, too. As we learn our boundaries for poor treatment, we can enjoy ourselves more!

  3. Thanks for the encouragement Sam.

    1. You’re very welcome! 🤗🤗🤗

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