Aligning

This whole experience, the world, has become a daily practice of releasing ourselves from the vision of the expectation. The plans. The “shoulds”…the “definites”. It’s become trading petty for presence. Awareness of which is which. Prioritizing our children’s mental health above all else. Their job becomes only comfort, safety and kindness as all else is let go. Daily practice equates to daily struggle. Daily balance between the need to be leaned on, and the desperate need to lean. Choosing battles carefully. Wisely. Expending and rationing energy carefully. Wisely. Sun up. Sun down. Round and around as we feed off one another. Delicately. Cautious to not push the other out of balance. Keeping watch. Tinkering and making necessary adjustments, hour by hour. It may end and it may not. These new lessons may become our gospel that shapes the life to come. The lessons may also be forgotten if and when the old pace returns. There are many moving parts to this New World. But only one choice to make the best of all of it. Come what may. A softer, more gentle life.

Be well, Friends
Sam

23 thoughts on “Aligning

  1. Tired Little Birdie's avatar

    Spot on. I hope that I can tackle each day with such grace and understanding – I’m averaging 3-4 out of 7. Hope you are well.

    1. Sam's avatar

      3-4/7 I’d consider success…these are NOT easy times for anyone 😢 You as well! I am sustaining, I suppose. I had a scary Spring and am just now starting to feel well enough to contribute to…well, anything again! Day by day, though, is a perfect pace for me to be and I’m grateful for it 🤗

  2. lois's avatar

    Wax on, wax off. Mr Miyagi knew of what he spoke. Take it easy, people, and hang in there. The little guy is adorable.

    1. Sam's avatar

      Oh, to be as Zen as that guy! Or at least walk as softly! Thank you so much 😍 he makes every day so much fun.

  3. gigglingfattie's avatar

    Have a fantastic weekend, Sam!

    1. Sam's avatar

      You too, T! Are you doing any distance teaching this summer?

      1. gigglingfattie's avatar
        gigglingfattie June 26, 2020 — 7:54 pm

        Nope! I am tutoring the girl who lives upstairs for an hour in the mornings 😂 I’m learning fake nails so once I get a decent length and shape I might do online work (editing, virtual assistant type) but I am enjoying the freedom right now

        1. Sam's avatar

          You go, girlie! I have two summer distance courses to teach in July and August! Weeeeee.

          1. gigglingfattie's avatar
            gigglingfattie June 28, 2020 — 2:37 pm

            Oooo something to do!! Haha I’ve been so lazy this last week because I have no work….I need to get back into routines and things haha

  4. shellypruittjohnson's avatar

    Sam! What beautiful pictures and what a beautiful reminder. Thank you for this wisdom.

    1. Sam's avatar

      Hi Shelly! Thank you so much 🤗🤗🤗

  5. King Ben's Grandma's avatar

    I just rebuilt Big Ben after Dogzilla destroyed it with his tail. 😱😂😂💪
    I love your list! And I LOVE, LOVE your new bestie!

    This New World is an opportunity for us to form new habits. Kinder, gentler habits. I hope lots of people USE the opportunity!
    Hugs!🤗🥰💌

    1. Sam's avatar

      Oh no! The 3d puzzle!!?

      He’s my BabyBFF, my BBFF!

      I do too…alas. Time will tell as is usually the case.

      1. King Ben's Grandma's avatar

        No, it’s not a 3d puzzle it’s some boxes and lots of tape and some craptacular artwork by Gramma 😂😂😂 Dogzilla is a menace😯😂

        1. Sam's avatar

          Just crap it back together!! 😂😂😂

          1. King Ben's Grandma's avatar

            Lots and lots of tape. A master of tape, I am. The Force is strong in me!🙄🤣🤣🤣

            1. Sam's avatar

              One of my favorite household consumables is that 5 pack of green Scotch boxes at Target!

  6. Robyn's avatar

    I love your list! I love how much time I have had to spend with the family and really be aware of them in all the ways that really matter. And I really love your new little friend there – he is adorable!

    1. Sam's avatar

      Thank you, Robyn! I agree, there has been SO much invaluable reflection/introspection time and time for us all to work on ourselves and our family structure, tiny as it is!

  7. bcparkison's avatar

    Baby and water…not much better than that.

  8. TJ Fox's avatar

    So stikin’ cute! Love seeing you two having fun!

    1. Sam's avatar

      Right now everything is “the best” to him 😂😂😂 I know how fast that ends so I’m soaking it up!

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